Missing

November 1, 2013

Day 1~

Dear Mr. D♡ubt.. I maybe 3192.12 miles away  but u are still the first thing in my mind.. And tonight.. I will fall asleep with u in my heart..  My dear God.. Please take care of my Hubby.. Please keep my Hubby safe..  Please watch over him always and let good health, happiness.. and good fortune befall him.. Amen..  

I do miss u ta kjas!♡ 

Look Through My Window!!!

It's 1:02AM now, but I am still awake.

I look through my window

I look through my window at the sky.

It is so red and thunder. 

There are no stars come out tonight.

While I keep writing this, the rain begins falling down with thunder.

It reminds me of a song calls "Nirk Oun Pel Pleang Thleak".

I am wondering if it is also raining at her place. And if she really misses me as I do.

I am feeling so cold while it's raining. I am wondering if you feel the same way.

I wanna listen to the rain with you. I am wondering if you want it to.

I wanna hug you if it was raining over there coz I wanna make you feel warm.

Look through my window and I'm officially missing you, huni.

For all guys

Love Her...when she sips on your coffee or drink. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for YOU

Love Her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose YOU

Love her...when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. YOU have them too

Love her...when her cooking is bad. She tries for YOU

Love her...when she makes you watch corny love dramas while the sport is on. She wants to share these moments with YOU

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for YOU

Love her...when often her eyes water suddenly. She actually had a thought of loosing YOU

Love her…when she “pushes” you to pray. She wants to be with you in Paradise.

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not “make” them on her own.

Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

Love her…when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she’s beautiful.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She’s yours so appreciate her.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don’t like. She puts in all her savings for YOU.. Smile and tell her it’s what you’ve always wanted.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change. 

Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don’t ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new shirt anyway

Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both.

Love her…she is yours. You don’t need any other special reason!!!!

All this forms part of a Woman’s Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.

• Treat the women well.

• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.”

Inspiredtouch

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness. black-woman-sittng-in-bed-sad I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy.
My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce. “Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!”
I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered :
“Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….
” My hopes just sank by listening to his response. sad-girl- I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes…. My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..”
This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.“When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs. You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the color of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face… Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do…
I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading… “Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk… I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread…. sweeest-thing Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…
That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness. Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments… 

Source~ unknown 

The Long and Short of Long-Distance♥

Sure, there's the loneliness, the longing, the enormous phone bills. But have you really lived if you've never searched for your beloved's face at an airport gate?

The long-distance relationship is, by definition, doomed. The only way a long-distance relationship can amount to anything is for it to become a short-distance relationship. Distance may be fine for relatives and old friends, but when it comes to romantic love—that mysterious chemical reaction that's set off when two people occupy the same physical space—the long-distance relationship is a poor excuse for the real thing. To have a long-distance relationship is to go only halfway there. It is to talk love's gooey baby talk but not walk its rocky path. It is, literally, to phone it in. 

Or so they say. Consider this: The greatest sex toy ever invented may be the telephone. Sometimes there's nothing more erotic than a disembodied voice, no question more tantalizing than a whispered "What are you wearing?" Especially when you can make up the answer. On the phone your hair always looks great, your legs are always shaved, your worst pair of underwear becomes a silk negligee. Your lover, too, reaps the benefits of being a single dimension. He's a mere outline of a person, and you can fill in the details as you please. He's not wearing an ugly shirt. You can't see his latest skin blemish. He's not working late and missing dinner. He's yours and yours alone. In your own mind, anyway.

To believe in the fidelity of a disembodied voice, to be as smitten with someone's absence as you are with his presence, is to be a true romantic. It is to live for the future. It is to believe in the impossible, or at least the improbable. It is to hold out hope that something's going to change someday, that all this impracticality will eventually give way to something radical, something brave, something involving a moving van. Until then, you wait. You make use of the time. You work, see your friends, completely redo the bathroom. You're a pillar of productivity. It's not a bad lifestyle—except for those phone bills.

Of course, people will tell you that you're kidding yourself, that you're naive, that you can't possibly know if a relationship will last unless you're in it day to day, unless you witness the entire evolution of a skin blemish and are familiar with the whole array of ugly shirts. The long-distance relationship, though the domain of dreamers, is also a haven for self-deluders, for noncommitters, for, some might say, lazy bums. It's for those who want the perks of romance—the flowers on Valentine's Day, the guarantee of a phone call at night—without doing the hard work of a real relationship.

But, oh, the fondness that can bloom in a heart that knows so much absence! Is there any emotion richer than longing, any moment more heartbreaking than the moment you put down the telephone receiver after a marathon call with the one you love but for whatever reason are not with? The long-distance relationship may have its limits, but those who repudiate its merits, who chalk up the whole endeavor to immaturity or fear or laziness, are surely suffering from a woefully conventional view of relationships. Long-distance relationships have an urgency that couples in short-distance relationships can only dream of. 

Every second together counts. Every shared meal is savored; every kiss must be good enough to last weeks, maybe even months. Have you really lived, after all, if you haven't searched for your beloved's face at an airport gate, cursing the flight delay because you have only a weekend before you must part again? We should all be so lucky to seal in our memories the image of our lover on our doorstep, suitcase in hand, clothes wrinkled from a long trip, skin emanating a scent that we've forgotten but suddenly comes rushing back, bringing with it the recollection of the last time, which was too long ago and too brief, and ended with a tearful goodbye on this same doorstep.

In long-distance relationships, your life becomes compartmentalized: There's the life with him and the life without him, and the life without him is much, much bigger. Your friends won't know him (they may suspect you of inventing him). You'll still attend weddings without a date (meaning you'll be seated next to the groom's nerdy cousin). If you're tempted to cheat, you'll be burdened with the knowledge that you'll almost certainly get away with it. If you're afraid he'll cheat, then you probably shouldn't be in a long-distance relationship.

Because contrary to what the cynics say, distance is not for the fearful; it's for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough. Yes, the long-distance relationship may be doomed. You can't go on that way forever. But as long as you do, you'll embody the twin virtues of independence and imagination. As you fall asleep alone, you'll conjure the scent of your lover's neck, the timbre of a voice over fiber optics, the ecstasy of seeing his face at the front door, which, thanks to him, is your favorite place in the whole house. After so much time apart, a suitcase itself is an aphrodisiac. The boy next door doesn't have a prayer.

By Meghan Daum

Pic Source from Google

Never Again

There's that occasional night where you just break down and cry because you know that no matter what..things will never be the same again.. (╥_╥)

What are words?

Every time you talk and open your mouth, you are making a choice: Do you use your power of speech to heal, or do you use your words to hurt? It is said that the power of the words we speak can be sharper and deadlier than a knife. A knife can only damage you physically, whereas the words in your speech can damage a person emotionally, mentally and spiritually. It can create more permanent damage internally and leave a wound of suffering.

A knife can only cut or kill the body, whereas a powerful speech can cut or even kill, the spirit of any person. Such is the power of curse. Yet words can also be the best form of healing and inspiration to the soul. Through inspiring words, we can achieve the impossible. People inspired by words are motivated to make changes within themselves. No mountain is too high, no sea is too wide that we cannot climb or swim. Nothing is impossible with an inspired person. Inspirational words are food for the soul. This is what we can truly live by. Every person wants to be inspired by words. We need recognition, praise, and gratitude. "I love you". "Thank you". "I care for you". "Please". "I appreciate you". These are some of the most powerful words in the human vocabulary.  There is a cliché that says "Talk is cheap". But it really isn't because every time we open our mouth, there is incredible worth attached to what we say. It depends entirely on how we value our words and opinion. So the next time you have to open your mouth and use words... think twice... the reason why the creator give us only one mouth and yet a set of ears, eyes and arms, is so we can or should always hear twice on both sides before we speak... look twice before we speak... work twice before we speak. If you have nothing good to say to anyone, then it's best to just shut up. Only open your mouth if you have something good to say that can inspire or correct someone to be a better person. People so easily 'give their opinions' even without being asked. That is why is said to come so cheap. However, if a person only gives an opinion when it's solicited, his opinion becomes of value to the recipient. Talk is valuable, make good use of it. If you want to be a good talker... be a good listener first.. Some people can talk the talk but not walk the walk.. Telling a person that they can talk the talk but not walk the walk can have a few different meanings, but they all come back to the same principle: actions speak louder than words. This words stems from the challenge "if you talk the talk, you've got to walk the walk." An example would be a person talking of principles. You can talk all you want about principles, but you have to actually live by them, too. If you tell a person they can talk the talk but not walk the walk, it can mean the person is a hypocrite, thus not practicing what they preach. But it can also mean they are procrastinating!!! They're talking about doing things but not actually doing them. They're all talk, no action... What Are Words??? Do you practice what your preach? Do you walk your talk? Is your actions speak louder than your words? For me well done is better than well said & to get rid all the "what if" & "waiting" . 👍

True Love!!!

Love is caring for each other even when u're angry.

How do you determine your happiness?

Some people agree that money can bring happiness while the rest strongly believe that money cannot buy happiness. Millionaires maybe find their happiness by travelling around the world, buying big mansions, luxury cars, and diamond while the poorer finds their happiness by having a bread for their daily food. However, some people find their happiness by living with his/her partner no matter what... as long as they respect each others.

So how do you determine your happiness?

June 03, 2013

I am a tortoise now.. huhu.. so shy laaaa.. >.<!

Why Now?

It's tough to say.. the possibilities are infinite.. truth hurts! Why now? Should I or Shouldn't ??! Deep breath.. hmmm.. ~vs

9 June 2013??? ♡

The title of my blog today is "9 June 2013". What? Why? lolz... Secret!!! ^_^

Yesternight was one of the best day in my life.

And It made me smile the whole night till I fell asleep.

To be continued...

I miss you like a FAT kid misses his MEAL

Sayang, you cross my mind no matter morning, noon, or night. And I never ever get bored of missing you.
I want to give you piggyback and never put you down for the rest of my life.
I want to kiss your  forehead every single night and morning.
I want to tickle you when you are mad.
I want to hug you when you are mad.
I wish I could see you right now or soon.
Huni, I want to let you know that there's not a day that goes by where I don't think about you.
I miss you like a fat kid misses his meal.
Abang sayang awak

I miss U like a Mouse♡Rice

I miss u when something really good happens... because u are the one I want to share it with... I miss u when something is troubling me... because u are the one who understands me so well.. I miss u when I laugh & cry... because I know... that u are the one that makes my laughter grow & my tears disappear... I miss u all the time... but I miss u most when I lay awake at night & think of all the wonderful times we spent with each other for those were some of the best times of my life... deng tes tha I miss u?? Do I ever cross your mind?? 웃♡유 ~vs

How we met?

We met online.. had a good time.. chatted again & became friends. Time went on & we're still here & I truly believe you're someone dear! Here's something I'd like to share with you.. for all of your love & kindness too.. It's a symbol of the friendship we share together.. a friendship I hope will last forever.. 

Although we live so far apart.. Always remember .. you hold a piece of my heart! always.. ~Vs

My Love Story

My honey and I knew each other since 2011 through FB. And our love was starting from mocking each other. To be honest, every single day I logged in my Facebook just to see if she mocked me by posting some comments or inbox me. Because every night we always mocked each other not less than 1 hour before bed. 

After mocking, I slept with a smile on my face and though, "Tomorrow, what will she mock me?". Jesus!!! I can't wait to see her comments or message in my inbox.

Until November 14 , 2012, she wanted me to make it clear whether I loved her or just playful. So, I decided to write an Official Love Declaration without fear to declare my love to her on Wednesday, November 14, 2012. 
So November 14 is our anniversary.